So, I have this new friend Raven, who is having a hard time with her rents and grandma.
She wrote me : Hey gabby, here's my story. I just moved back to my moms house. The reason was me and my grandma got into a mucho grande fight. Its better here though. Everyone is nice here. I used to live in Bellport. Man what a hole in the wall. No one was nice. And I always got treated like shit when I did everything for my grandma. I got so sick just from stress. Now that I'm here I feel so much better. But now my grandma wants me back. And I told my mom I will never go back. And now every time I think I cant stay on one topic.
To clear things up, her parents have been fighting. So Raven had to go and live with her grandmother for a while. Apparently, things didn't go over so well. I hope that her parents are getting better, so that there won't be any need to go back to your grandma's house.
But, if your mom is going to make you live with your grandma again, there are some ways to cope. Obviously, stress is getting to you. The best way to handle that is being alone. Take time for yourself, and vent your anger. If it by typing on your blog, or just laying on your bed, relax. Another way is to talk to someone. That helps me.
This is not a good situation, I totally understand, but we are the kids and they are the grownups. It sucks, I know. But, it takes more energy to fight it, than it does to go with the flow. If you are dead set on never entering that house again, make your point know. Don't attack your mother, just sit her down and explain how you feel. Try to be as truthful as you can be, but at the same time, don't tell her what to do. That's all I can tell you.
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I'm not so good at the advice thing but lets give it a shot,...
ok, take a vacation, or something, just time to yourself to vent, and relax then when you come back do what gabby said.
well, It probably doesnt help but i tried.
-wolf boy
Um... I'm not the giving advice type, sorry. My grandma on my dad's side died almost 4 years ago. I'm accepted for the NUS High camp!!! I passed the test!!! I have a new post about it!!! Check it out!
Max Ride Fan 13
I'd just like to say first off, be thankful that your granma is still alive and well. My nana died 6 years ago on the 29th of this month and i miss her real badly and it doesnt help with the situation i'm in now (i'm Katie, from one of the problems on here). Try and try to talk to your mom, don't take no as an answer. Show her you really don't want to go back.
I get stresed out a lot and i find that just being in my room most of the day, like on my laptop, helps me so you should give it a go. It calms me down.
Also, maybe you should try and make peace with your grandma. Even if you still don't want to be with her you should try to make up.
Thats all i got right now, hope it might have helped (though probably not)
Kel (Katie) xx
y is there a deleted comment?
Hi gabby I just wanted 2 thank u for the comment.
ya i hate names that r used alllll the time. way 2 commen for my likeing.
o and i looooooooove Maximum Ride!!! I hav a huge crush on Iggy lol. he's my little blind mutant! :) lol.
-Wings
Talk to your mum calmly. Don't lose your temper. Act like an adult, and you will be treated like an adult.
I know, my advice sucks, but I really hope things work out for you.
Good luck!
~Ciara
ah, i am the master expert of stress! Gabby, you are so totally right on! venting really does help, if you keep it in you tend to find yourself fighting off the urge to do something radical to make the hurt go away (like hurting yourself) i've had these thoughts becuase face it when you stress to much it becomes like a phyical restraint on your body... if you feel you can't tell someone upfront then telling someone through your blog really can be the next best thing...
good luck with your fam raven!
<3 kat
hey! it's kat but i had to get an account to post on raven's blog so i thought i'd come bk here and say hello! hehe, i'm i little buzzed on sugar...anyways my brother(the used to be cutter) and i are going to play a video game! l8r!
<3 kat
p.s. this is the first time in a while i've been happy, well really truly happy anyways...
yay! kat god to hear that life is well! I'm glad everything is fine, but anytime you have a problem, don't hesitate to tell me!
hmm.. no new problems (all the old ones) but on another up note i started a blog, it's gonna be a sort of three part thing, i'd love for you guys to visit!
<3 kat
I think it's totally great what your doing, keep it up all the way.
could you help me get my blog up and running? like tell me the things that are useful to get it out there.
What's up.
That's really good advice.
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