Thursday, June 28, 2007

First Problem!!!

Alright guys...time to put the new program to the test. I have talked with Faxness=awsomness from the forum. She has problems at home, and wants your support!!!

She said to me: My parents got divorced(I know that it isn't as bad as your life, but for me it is still horrible.) I thought it was all my fault. My dad's new girlfriend seriously is like mentally abusive, but no one besides my mom believes me. Seriously, but she can't do anything. I hate my dad's girlfriend, and I know she hates me too. My dad and her even called the cops on me a few times, because I wouldn't go to their house when I was supposed to. My stupid counselor is on their side, and I can't even talk to my once cool dad anymore. I hide in my not so safe room at their house, and I have only the comfort of the few books that I bring alone. MR has really helped too. But things really won't get any better.

It's funny because were so closely related. My moms got a boy friend, not like yours at all! No, he definitely loves my mom, and that's what I want. Although I am no counselor, I have a few words of wisdom. Talking is best it really is. (I'm a huge hypocrite because I hardly talk to my parents, but still I spoke about it here) Don't keep things bottled up, they only come back to hurt you. If your dad truly loves you, he will listen to what you have to say about his girlfriend. Sit him down alone, and whatever you do, don't get anger or hot-headed. Calmly and adult like tell him what you think. It's really hard to talk to your dad about this stuff, I would know! I had to leave his house when he was sick, in order to make an impact. Obviously, don't resist coming over, seeing as the cops already seem to be involved.

One last thing, I have issues where my dad yells at me for simply saying something. I have a feeling stuff like that may happen to you. If so, go without talking unless directly addressed. Then, when you are both relaxed, speak to him. BUT YOU HAVE TO BE THE ONE TO ACT! Stop sitting around waiting for it to get better! Max (who gives me the best advice) never once waited for the world to save itself. Be like her, and make it happen.

Anyone else that feels like sharing their thoughts...comment!!!