Alright guys...time to put the new program to the test. I have talked with Faxness=awsomness from the forum. She has problems at home, and wants your support!!!
She said to me: My parents got divorced(I know that it isn't as bad as your life, but for me it is still horrible.) I thought it was all my fault. My dad's new girlfriend seriously is like mentally abusive, but no one besides my mom believes me. Seriously, but she can't do anything. I hate my dad's girlfriend, and I know she hates me too. My dad and her even called the cops on me a few times, because I wouldn't go to their house when I was supposed to. My stupid counselor is on their side, and I can't even talk to my once cool dad anymore. I hide in my not so safe room at their house, and I have only the comfort of the few books that I bring alone. MR has really helped too. But things really won't get any better.
It's funny because were so closely related. My moms got a boy friend, not like yours at all! No, he definitely loves my mom, and that's what I want. Although I am no counselor, I have a few words of wisdom. Talking is best it really is. (I'm a huge hypocrite because I hardly talk to my parents, but still I spoke about it here) Don't keep things bottled up, they only come back to hurt you. If your dad truly loves you, he will listen to what you have to say about his girlfriend. Sit him down alone, and whatever you do, don't get anger or hot-headed. Calmly and adult like tell him what you think. It's really hard to talk to your dad about this stuff, I would know! I had to leave his house when he was sick, in order to make an impact. Obviously, don't resist coming over, seeing as the cops already seem to be involved.
One last thing, I have issues where my dad yells at me for simply saying something. I have a feeling stuff like that may happen to you. If so, go without talking unless directly addressed. Then, when you are both relaxed, speak to him. BUT YOU HAVE TO BE THE ONE TO ACT! Stop sitting around waiting for it to get better! Max (who gives me the best advice) never once waited for the world to save itself. Be like her, and make it happen.
Anyone else that feels like sharing their thoughts...comment!!!
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7 comments:
Wow! That is awesome advice! Gosh, I wish I could give comforting advice like you! Sorry I haven't been visiting for some time!:P Too much homework !
Max Ride Fan 13
Wow very goo advice! you are really great!!!
Grab life by the horns and dont be afraid 2 speak your mind. I also agree, max did give eceptional advice and I liked the message that MR3 gave.. personally Im very aggresive and cant wait to REALLY GET MY FRIENDS TOGETHER TO RALLY AGAINST HARMFUL CORPORATIOS.
thatas my opinion
-Wolf Boy
You got that right High school's gonna suck,.. but what can you do.
If were lucky they'll award us an award for saving the planet and so much money we wouldn't need to go to school... lol, Well I guess a guy can have dreams, lol.
-Wolf Boy
p.s.I like ur blog it's cool and ur posts are awsome~!!!!
tell the girl that if the counsiler refuses to listen, SCREW HIM, GET A NEW 1... I dont think ur lying about ur dad's girlfriend so why is it some, now Im not saying all, but still alot of adults refuse to listen, or take into concept our words.
Tell her at least she's got my support,... Even if it doesn't really help I like to try.
-Wolf Boy
i totally agree, but i have another idea...whenever i get kind of overwhelmed and i don't know how to say something to someones faces when it really needs to be i write down what i know i need to say and if i'm still to afraid to talk to them i write them a letter and leave somewhere i know only they will find it...it sounds like something a wimp would do but sometimes i do just wimp out... and you know what, i'm not ashamed of it because sometimes people take things better when they don't have to take it straight from someone elses mouth... i hope she figures out something that works for her...and i hope her dad listens...Good luck!!!!!
<3 K.A.T.
I agree with wolf Boy and anonaymous and mabye you could get a journal and write there, too. Good luck!
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